Most guys would tell horror stories about the very first time they kissed a girl. Some guys gnashed teeth with the woman and got her lips bloodied. The first kiss with a girl is almost always uncomfortable. If you are planning on dating a girl, you have to make sure your first kiss will not be added to the list of horrible first kisses. Your first kiss with the girl you want to date can turn out all right. Here i will discuss some suggestions on how you can get the very first kiss.
Getting the First Kiss in 3 Steps
Step One. Good Timing
Most girls expect to be kissed after the date, while you’re saying goodbye. To make the kiss work, you should not wait until then to go for it. Kiss her at some stage in the date. Sharing your first kiss after the date may be disastrous because you have no idea how she responded to the kiss. If she likes it, you’d miss the precious reaction. If she liked the kiss, she would blush and act flustered. If she hated it, you wouldn’t have a chance to redeem yourself. Again, kiss her during the date, and then you can kiss again afterward.
If at one point at some point in the date, the timing presents itself, seize it. The feeling of exuberance may come after you have laughed together for a time. Hugging at some point in the date can be a prelude to a kiss. Brush your lips across hers to check the waters.
Step Two. Preparation
Even kissing requires foreplay. Preparing her for a kiss is not as hard as it seems. You just ought to keep the mood going, and decide when it’s time for the kiss. You can drive or walk about until you reach a quiet venue. If you’re jogging, bring a canteen of water that you can share. Sharing a drink is one way to prepare for the kiss. The thought of drinking from something you have touched may give her ideas.
Step Three. Placement
Positioning is extremely important. If you’re not close enough, you may need to add another step to the process of kissing her. Rather than taking that extra step, make sure you’re already in position before you even ask to kiss her.
You know you’re in the best position if you’re close enough to whisper in her ear. If there’s an empty spot beside her, don’t take the seat across hers. Test the waters. You can start by kissing her cheek. If she doesn’t push you away, then you can find the confidence to kiss her lips next. Feel free to tilt her chin or stroke her hair.
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